My friends and I constantly debate this point. Should we call our boyfriends? Time and time again, the answer is no. I am very strict about this.

I’ve learned from experience and by reading the rules that it’s sometimes better when we don’t call. Let him call. I’ll tell you why.

When you don’t call he:
 looks forward to your call

is not busy watching football, basketball or some other mess.

 never gets annoyed that you call him too much

never thinks of you as needy

 sees you as super busy.

And Most Importantly…..(Drum Roll)

He sees you as the prize. 

Yes, you are that elusive woman that all men desire and he gets to be with YOU.Now I know sometimes we just want to call and tell him we’ve been thinking about him.

Save that for when you see him.