Why is it so hard to find a man with goals, and who is looking for more than a “hook-up”?

I’ll give you an example.  I recently met a man on Fulton Street in Manhattan.  I had just returned from a voice over audition (yeah I do lots of things) and was feeling pretty excited.

As I was walking, this good looking man passed me and looked back. He kept on looking back and I pretended I hadn’t noticed him.  I was in no mood for idle chatter, you see.

So then he gathered enough courage to approach me and said, “You are exactly the kind of woman I’ve been looking for.  My curiosity piqued, I asked him in what way?

His answer was….interesting.   Ready?

“You have the type of body that prevents a man from cheating.”

Need I say, he was immediately crossed off my potentials list?  He didn’t know it yet, but he was dead to me.

He then rattled off all the things he can do for me, such as “nice bubble baths, cruises, etc.

I smiled at him and told him I would keep his qualities in mind and kept on walking.

To my male subscribers, please do not ever tell a woman that something about her will keep you from straying.  It’s not a compliment.