Chris brown got to finally to honor Michael Jackson with an amazing dance tribute.

Chris comes the closest that I have ever seen to perfectly imitating Michael’s dance moves. They should have ended the performance there. Instead BET faded to blacked and then zoomed on Chris as he began to sing “Make a Change”.

The problem is he wasn’t singing. To my utter horror, he began to bawl. He tried to sing, but his efforts deteriorated into downright bawling and rigorous arm jerking.

Then he left the stage.

What a joke.

Who doesn’t believe Chris was bawling about his lost CD sales and is hoping to get the audience to forgive him through a few bouts of manly bawling.

By Cajun

Breaking up is the last thing on my list. I’ve only had one girlfriend in my life and we were two months away to celebrating our 7th year together when I called it quits. Liza was my first love and back when we were just starting out, I told myself that I’m going to see her walk down the aisle for me. But things change, don’t they? Things started to shift between us and yeah, maybe got tired of taking care of a love that’s meant to die.

You see, Liza is an independent girl and so was I. We both have different perceptions and beliefs in life, but we managed to reconcile those back then. However, as we grew older and things became more of a responsibility rather than an experience, we realized we couldn’t take each other’s back anymore.

Take our religions for example. I am a catholic and she’s a protestant. It really doesn’t matter to me, but the thing is, she doesn’t spend time doing her responsibility to her church. Whenever I want to attend mass, I’d tell her to attend theirs too and she’d nag me because she wants to spend time with me. She wants everything done her way and I think that’s not possible because I also have things in my mind. Whenever I don’t agree with her, she’d get mad at me and won’t talk to me for a few days. I think that’s kind of childish.
I felt that she needed some growing up to do.

I love Liza, it’s just that she doesn’t want to move on and improve her life. I have my own goals, I have dreams, I have plans and it seems that she’s blocking the way. I don’t want to sound selfish or anything, but maybe when we part ways, she’d realize the need to change. I was the one who ended our relationship and it was so hard for me to see her in tears. I felt sorry, but I know it was for the best. Someday, when she finally decides to get a real life, I might reconcile with her. But until then, we should both grow up without each other’s presence.

That is mind-blogging. Then again, love is not rational. If a man beats you to a pulp, especially if your face is that which is pulped, how can you think of going back to him? A man who beats you in the face wants to hurt you deeply. Men know women are vain and this is one of the ways they can seriously hurt women.

We at Dating Dump strongly believe that there is never a reason for a man to hit a woman, not even if she “provokes” it. That is not to say if a woman comes at a man with a knife, he should not protect himself. When your life is in danger, you do whatever you need to do to protect and defend yourself. Women should not ever hit a man because not all men were raised to not hit women. You are opening yourself up to extreme violence. At the same time if a woman is foolish enough to slap a guy, then walk away man. The law is not on your side and you are likely to end up in jail.

Quite frankly, the thought of Rihanna and Chris together again makes us want to hurl. Rihanna you have everything going for you. You have a fantastic career with thousands of fans routing for you. You are a beautiful person inside and out. You can have your pick of almost any man .

Choose wisely, girl.

By Shana

For the nth time, I tried calling you. Always, your voice recording answered my calls. Beep! I hung up. I know you are not the type who hides from your exes. Besides, we used to be friends. I can still remember the first time we met. We were in this bar. You were tipsy and had lost another round of Truth or Dare with your friends. You were asked to kiss anyone in my table, which I share with my office mates. We were in one of our girls’ night out and you were there. You kissed me. You were the first. And have been the only one, yet.

You laughed. You never said sorry, though. Instead, you whispered something in my ears and walked away haughtily. I should have gotten angry but you excited me. I have never thought myself sexy. No. I was the class nerd—am the office dork—will have been the martyr of the century. I was still shaken from that incident that I reached inside my bag only to find something pointed yet at the same time glossy. I peeked inside and found your calling card. I would not have known the word suave if not for you. Well, I didn’t call you, did I? But whoever you had asked, you got my number. And you called me.

For several months, we went out together. Eventually, we became a couple. For the two months we were together, we had always dropped by this bar for a bottle of beer. You love your Colt icy cold, while I love my Cerveza Negra cold or just with ice. You haven’t liked Cerveza because you said your ex used to drink this. He will always remind you of the bittersweet, malty aftertaste whenever he kissed you. Well, that is the reason why I didn’t kiss you if I had Cerveza. But for the two months we were together, I only had a glass of Colt 45 as you drank the rest.

But here I am in this bar again, calling you. Where are you?

“Hello?”

“Austin?” I asked. “God! I’ve missed you.”

“Thea, you’re drunk! And stop calling me. We’re—“

“No. It’s not over between us.”

“I’m sorry, but John’s my life.”

“I know. For the last time, would you care for a bottle of beer with me?”

“No.”

“Please. Cheers for my broken heart.”

He hung up on me as the wind washed over my face—a call for the wind to come.

by Shana

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Here is a tip: Go out with your beautiful friend and some mutual friends. When you get to the venue, offer her a drink, and then ignore her for the rest of the night. That is right. Ignore her. If you are at a party, walk around the room and mingle. Let her hang out with her friends while you work the room. Do not be mean, rude or obnoxious to her. Make sure she has friends to hang out with. Look at her, smile and then continue to ignore her. Have a great time with your friends. Hold your head high, mingle some more and pay her no mind. She will wonder why you are not doting on her. I guarantee your mutual friends will be doting on her. She will approach you and maybe even joke that you are not keeping her company. This is not a joke. She is wondering why you do not need to dote on her. Treat your beautiful woman friend like you do your less attractive friend and she will seek your attention.

This technique works because no one likes rejection and even the beautiful woman has self-esteem issues. By not treating her any better than her less attractive friends, she will come to you so that you can stroke her ego. Be nice to her but ignore her romantically and she will be yours.

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Flirt with Other Women

By flirting, we are talking about harmless flirting. This is not a license to cheat or flirt in a disrespectful manner. While with her, smile at the waitress even if she is not that attractive. Treat every woman you meet with chivalry. Hold the door open and flirt with the 80 year old lady on the block. Every hot girl who dates an average man feels that he is out of her league. By flirting with everyone, she will wonder why you are not hanging on her every word and why you are not completely focused on her.

Out of Sight, Out of mind

Ask for her number and then don’t call. Let her initiate all the phone calls. When with her, treat her like a princess, but when she is gone pretend she doesn’t exist. When you speak to her, do not stay on the phone for longer than 15 minutes. Charm her with words and then let her know regrettably that you have to go. This technique actually works for both sexes. Create longing in her by not being easily attainable.

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Are you a white guy who absolutely adores black women, but have no idea how to convince her to see you as anything but a friend or brother? The following tips will teach you how to relate to a black woman in a way that will make her not only appreciate you but even see you in a romantic light. Yes, even the white geek can have a hot, cool black woman, or if you prefer a black geeky woman, you can get her too.

Make Her Laugh

This is the most effective technique you can use to meet a black woman. You have to understand, that depending on the black woman, her experiences may be different. She may look at you skeptically as someone who is boring or will want to do boring things. However, if you succeed in tickling her funny bone, she will think of you as the guy who makes her laugh. And that is a start.

Show Her That You Know Some Things About Black Culture

Watch BET. Watch old episodes of “Girlfriend, Martin, In the Heights, House of Payne” and other black-centered shows. Not only will you learn some things about black culture, but she will appreciate that you have taken the time to learn. Being conversant in all things black will dispel any notions that she may have that your interest is just a fetish. Do not make black jokes and don’t name drop black celebrities in an obvious way.

Be Understanding of her Hair

Don’t ask her why she has a different hairstyle every week or why she doesn’t wash her hair every day or why she runs for shelter when it starts to rain. Black women have a very complex relationship with their hair. Some wear it natural and are totally embracing of its texture, some wear it relaxed and some wear weaves or extensions. Don’t ask her if you can brush her hair because most likely the answer will be no. Compliment her on here hair often and let her know that she looks great no matter which hairstyle you have.

Do empathize with her perceptions of race discrimination

An event in the news may be an obvious indicator of racism to her but not to you because your experiences differ. If she is angry about an event, just nod in understanding even if you don’t understand. If she asks if you agree, tell her that although you did not perceive the event to be racial in nature, you also know your experiences are different and therefore, you trust her judgment.

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I know you all have heard the news about Mariah Carey and Eminem. Yes, they are fighting again.

Mariah apparently made a video for her new song “obsessed” in which she dresses as a man sporting a goatee with a hood over his head. This man is bears a remarkable similarity to Eminem. In return, eminem made a rhyme called “Warning” in which he completely disses Mariah and warns her that if she doesn’t stop, he will bring everything to light including voice mail and pictures. Oh, by the way, it also appears that Mariah’s voice is sampled on the rhyme.

Oh Mariah, don’t you know what a viper, Eminem is? He can give it a lot worse than you can ever give it. He is no gentleman. What is wrong with Mariah and Eminem anyway?

The problem with Mariah and Eminem is a common issue. It is the case of a man wanting a woman more than she wants him. You see, when Mariah and Eminem got together, it was hot, and I am sure. However, Mariah must have decided that it was not such a good idea for people in her circle to know that he had hooked up with him. She must have felt she was better than him. And that, my friends, drove Eminem crazy.

How many men wish they had a woman that they know is too good for them. Is there a way to get this woman?

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Why is it so hard to find a man with goals, and who is looking for more than a “hook-up”?

I’ll give you an example.  I recently met a man on Fulton Street in Manhattan.  I had just returned from a voice over audition (yeah I do lots of things) and was feeling pretty excited.

As I was walking, this good looking man passed me and looked back. He kept on looking back and I pretended I hadn’t noticed him.  I was in no mood for idle chatter, you see.

So then he gathered enough courage to approach me and said, “You are exactly the kind of woman I’ve been looking for.  My curiosity piqued, I asked him in what way?

His answer was….interesting.   Ready?

“You have the type of body that prevents a man from cheating.”

Need I say, he was immediately crossed off my potentials list?  He didn’t know it yet, but he was dead to me.

He then rattled off all the things he can do for me, such as “nice bubble baths, cruises, etc.

I smiled at him and told him I would keep his qualities in mind and kept on walking.

To my male subscribers, please do not ever tell a woman that something about her will keep you from straying.  It’s not a compliment.

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