I’ll Cook You a Nice Dinner

One dating practice I’ve watched grow with interest is the number of guys who offer to cook dinner at their places on date one. First of all, when did men learn how to cook? Granted, the dinner usually consists of some sort of pasta, which is not that difficult. The man offering to cook usually has some flavor of metrosexual and dresses well. The offer is tempting. How many of us have men to cook food for us while we sip on a glass of wine? Sounds good, doesn’t it.

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When a man offers a dinner at his place as a first date, alarms should be going off in your head. Enough alarms to deafen you.

When you hear “cook a nice dinner”, your brain should automatically translate that statement into “have some good sex.”There is no reason you should be going to a man’s house on a first date except to have sex. Unless that is what you want, say no to dinner at his place.

So what do you say when a man asks you to have dinner at his house? Tell him you’d prefer to meet him someplace else for dinner until you get to know him a little better.  Simple.