White Men – Black Women – The White Geek’s Guide to Meeting a Hot & Intelligent Black Woman
October 26, 2009 by admin
Are you a white guy who absolutely adores black women, but have no idea how to convince her to see you as anything but a friend or brother? The following tips will teach you how to relate to a black woman in a way that will make her not only appreciate you but even see you in a romantic light. Yes, even the white geek can have a hot, cool black woman, or if you prefer a black geeky woman, you can get her too.
Make Her Laugh
This is the most effective technique you can use to meet a black woman. You have to understand, that depending on the black woman, her experiences may be different. She may look at you skeptically as someone who is boring or will want to do boring things. However, if you succeed in tickling her funny bone, she will think of you as the guy who makes her laugh. And that is a start.
Show Her That You Know Some Things About Black Culture
Watch BET. Watch old episodes of “Girlfriend, Martin, In the Heights, House of Payne” and other black-centered shows. Not only will you learn some things about black culture, but she will appreciate that you have taken the time to learn. Being conversant in all things black will dispel any notions that she may have that your interest is just a fetish. Do not make black jokes and don’t name drop black celebrities in an obvious way.
Be Understanding of her Hair
Don’t ask her why she has a different hairstyle every week or why she doesn’t wash her hair every day or why she runs for shelter when it starts to rain. Black women have a very complex relationship with their hair. Some wear it natural and are totally embracing of its texture, some wear it relaxed and some wear weaves or extensions. Don’t ask her if you can brush her hair because most likely the answer will be no. Compliment her on here hair often and let her know that she looks great no matter which hairstyle you have.
Do empathize with her perceptions of race discrimination
An event in the news may be an obvious indicator of racism to her but not to you because your experiences differ. If she is angry about an event, just nod in understanding even if you don’t understand. If she asks if you agree, tell her that although you did not perceive the event to be racial in nature, you also know your experiences are different and therefore, you trust her judgment.
Now that you know how to relate to the black woman, where will you meet her? Don’t be afraid of sites dedicated to black singles. As a white man, you can also browse these sites. Browse an assortment of beautiful black women or men for free!
Hey, you have some great tips! Currently I’m pursuing some black girls out there. I like black women as they are somehow hotter and better in “playing the game”. You know what I mean.
Hello, MISTER WILLIAM!! Let me tell you black woman’s other specialty : we can kick your balls and rip the skin off that nobody would ever want to have sex with you and all you can do is ask your mother for sex! How would you like that?
I have to move on because there’s no black women in my country (well, at least it’s quite uncommon to find any here). I hope there’s more good articles in the website.
By the way, take it easy, Sara. Don’t you find it a little compliment for the blacks?
Hey, Sara. It’s true that black women are sweet for me. No offence, but just like a soy sauce, they are black but also so sweet and very useful.
I still don’t understand with black women’s hair. What’s really wrong with it? And it’s hard to show understanding of race discrimination. She will not believe in our sympathy that easily and keep blaming us for it.
HEY….WILLIAM
You’re a FREAKING TOOL. I’m dating a black woman right now and happen to be the first white man she’s ever been with. She’s told me numerous times she’s never even looked at a white dude till me in a sexual\dating fashion. All I did was be my damn self and by that I mean be true to yourself don’t front like your hard or like you just don’t give a f**K sooner or later your card will be pulled and it won’t work out for you. BTW to the writer of this article it’s cool and all but this is a general dating tool for all races, no woman is the same and this fiction that “BLACK” woman are different is BS. And if any f**king moron believes that their getting culture from BET or Martin please refrain from trying to date anyone…YOU’RE DUMB. Later all
Hey, Sara. It’s true that black women are sweet for me. No offence, but just like a soy sauce, they are black but also so sweet and very useful.