Accept or Reject
May 24, 2007 by admin
Today, I had an argument with my boyfriend because I tried to tell him something that was important to the both of us, but I said it to him in a subtle manner. I expected him to get it and I became very angry when he did not get it. Yeah. I have a short fuse sometimes.
I like men who pick up on subtleties. I like men with quick minds. I like men I can banter with. I like verbal acuity. I like cleverness. My boyfriend is more of an in-your-face, socially unrefined kind of guy. What do I do?
I had to come to terms with the fact that I have to either accept him or reject him. He will never be a smooth Casanova. He accepts me as I am with all my flaws and I have to accept him.
What I want is a good human being with a good heart, goals and ambitions and who treats me well. As long as he continues to provide that for me, I will work with him.
Arguing is not that bad. You can get other opinions of your thought; and it would build a better solution or way of thinking. Unless you are quarreling all over the time, you should stick with him.